happy monday :)
and st. patty’s day!
welp, lately on my health journal i’ve been yappin about how i’m tryin to reach a certain weight loss goal. (specifically, the ever-8freakinmonth-elusive 200lb mark!) i have a lot of “reasons” (excuses?) why i havent fulfilled that goal and mainly they are health-related obstacles.
but really, is that what has slowed me down the most?
probably not. (i hate being honest with myself. dangit!)
for some reason, the more i fail to succeed the more i blame it on something “out of my control.” but honestly, how out of my control is healing my endometriosis/reducing pain and balancing my hormones? hmm. how out of my control is dealing with my foot/ankle issues so im not in pain all the time? isnt that what my journey to better health is all about—taking control of those obstacles?
i also keep telling myself i need to be more kind and gentle to my psyche and stop beating myself up when i fall short because it ends up starting a vicious cycle. and while that IS true, i also need to be brutally honest and ask myself—have i REALLY tried as hard as i could? have i given it my all? or have i put forth just a few weeks of consistency and then let the proverbial “cut off” time for my motivation take hold just so i can be lazy again?
i’m thinking the latter. :\
sparkpeople postlast week i read this post (left) on sparkpeople. while it’s not a fancyschmancy speech, it cuts thru the crap and excuses. it’s something i needed to hear at this juncture and i thought i’d share! i decided to give you a screenshot of the post so that way if you decide you want to be part of sparkpeople, you can connect with the author if you’d like :)
so wow, what did you think? definitely some points that made smoke come out my ears. LOL. at one time or another, every single one of these excuses is ME, whining. haha. (in addition to who knows how many more…)
i dont think i even need to expand on her explanations. i’m getting to the point where it’s simply cut and dry—either do it, or dont! get healthier, or dont! PERIOD. i’m tired of swimming in excuses!
even if losing weight or improving your health isnt high on your priority list, what is? and what excuses do you keep using that’re holding you back because it’s more comfortable there? think…spiritual time, family time, time spent doing something helping others…
i hope this gave you something to chew on, too!
AND…what are you going to do about it?
~josey~
I saw an amazing show on TV last night called "I can make you thin" Check it out. It really makes loads of sense.
ReplyDeletehey witchyp! i just googled the show/book/cd. sounds great!!! its nice to see someone focusing on probably the most difficult aspect of why so many people are fat--and its NOT because we overeat. its because we are MENTAL! hahah!!! ;) okay, that was mean but you get my drift and you know i'm there. maybe i'll tivo next week's episode and see what it's all about. hubby will LOOOVE that...another crazy reality show to add to the schedule. teehee ;)
ReplyDeleteHey I have been waiting for that Make Me Thin show to come on. In fact I recorded it last night but I haven't been able to watch it yet. I haven't had enough time...or energy to watch it and I just don't want to starve myself, plus I hear its really expensive and maybe even too hard to cook. lol :p
ReplyDeletehey, kel! i guess i dont know for sure what the show is about--i thought it was more about how to conquer the emotional crap of being overweight and your relationship with food? you'll have to let me know since i'm missing the first episode! :) im sure it wont involve starving yourself tho, at least i sure hope not. anyhoo, you have menus created JUST for you that have proven to help you lose weight anyway. hehehe. ;)
ReplyDeleteHey Josey... Do hang in there and stick with your goals. Knowing and understanding " Excuses" is certainly a good start. I'm not convinced it makes the journey any easier but it makes it more realistic.
ReplyDeleteHere's some support from afar! :)
hi intrepid! boy are you sure right--understanding my pitiful excuses definitely doesnt make it easier. but it does make me feel a bit more "grown up..." which sucks, because i dont wanna grow up. hehe. thanks for your thoughts!! they're much appreciated. :)
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ReplyDeletecrap!! i'll have to watch the infomercial. are you selling a special scale?? mine doesnt have the knob!! ohhhh the horror! if i'd have only known about your product years ago...if only...*sigh* i'll pay anything to lose that 10lb!
ReplyDeletelet me know when it airs!! ;) maybe i can offer you my bridge as a barter?? HAHA!